tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-231669418519694533.post6340914441063538494..comments2023-04-06T05:33:49.640-04:00Comments on 27 Dresses in Cleveland: Laying down the lawAlways a Bridesmaidhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17004385239748236329noreply@blogger.comBlogger10125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-231669418519694533.post-48871153301433129132008-12-03T19:22:00.000-05:002008-12-03T19:22:00.000-05:00I agree w/ JuJubean. It's best to tell the truth,...I agree w/ JuJubean. It's best to tell the truth, and you should tell it in an email. you really don't owe him anything after one date.Chillhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03699321560181579437noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-231669418519694533.post-62588514503547731052008-12-03T17:20:00.000-05:002008-12-03T17:20:00.000-05:00I hear ya, but A. it's not really a lie, i'm sure ...I hear ya, but A. it's not really a lie, i'm sure there is some guy you've met that you want to "see where it goes" even if you dont think it will be a positive direction. B. If God can allow Angelina to have Brad after all that she is, he surely can't begrudge you your happiness. :)Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-231669418519694533.post-71269672910603900762008-12-03T16:24:00.000-05:002008-12-03T16:24:00.000-05:00Don't you hate how guys don't feel guilty to just ...Don't you hate how guys don't feel guilty to just stop calling, but we do!<BR/>I say don't do anything and if he calls or e-mails again don't respond. If he calls/e-mails more than 3 times, he's obviously an idiot and then you have to say something!Famously Singlehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07676241898515413600noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-231669418519694533.post-49475185733518303452008-12-03T16:02:00.000-05:002008-12-03T16:02:00.000-05:00Anon 1 - you're probably right. Ashley - that's wh...Anon 1 - you're probably right. <BR/><BR/>Ashley - that's what I'm talking about!<BR/><BR/>Anon 2 - Damnit, you're right. I DO have six degrees everywhere. <BR/><BR/>Jest - Thank you thank you thank you! I have no problems with email. (I obvi like to write... hence I freaking blog almost every day.) <BR/><BR/>Stacy - with my luck, he'd answer and I'd get so flustered I'd agree to elope to Vegas with him. HA!<BR/><BR/>Jujubean - I love the approach. But in my sordid mind, I also wonder if telling a little white lie like that will jinx me. Like, fate will say, "HA HA! You said you were dating someone to get out of that dead-end opportunity... so now we'll NEVER let you find a guy! Mwaaaah haaaa haaaa haaaa haaaa!!"Always a Bridesmaidhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17004385239748236329noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-231669418519694533.post-5586779056174959072008-12-03T15:29:00.000-05:002008-12-03T15:29:00.000-05:00Okay so here's my "Thanks but no thanks" trick. I...Okay so here's my "Thanks but no thanks" trick. I generally like to do the "well, I started talking to someone a few weeks ago, and I really want to see where this goes." You can add, if you feel it necessary, "I'm really not good at dating multiple people, that's not fair to anyone, so I just felt I should be honest and let you know." <BR/><BR/>I don't know if that helps, but it makes me feel like less of a cliche than the "it's not you, it's me" or the "She's just not that into you"'s of the world. <BR/><BR/>What do you think?Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-231669418519694533.post-81028031063015404502008-12-03T15:20:00.000-05:002008-12-03T15:20:00.000-05:00You don't owe him anything! Frankly, cannot believ...You don't owe him anything! Frankly, cannot believe he has not gotten the hint yet. <BR/>Have you heard of "Slydial?" Maybe try that. <BR/><BR/>From the MSN Article: <BR/><BR/>Slydial lets you connect directly with another person's cell phone voice mail, bypassing the traditional ringing process that often results — sometimes disastrously — with someone picking up on the other end.<BR/><BR/>http://www.msnbc.msn.com/id/25815705/Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-231669418519694533.post-77281009467866074452008-12-03T15:12:00.000-05:002008-12-03T15:12:00.000-05:00He might take the hint, it sounds as if he hasn't ...He might take the hint, it sounds as if he hasn't so far. Do you have his email account? I know that seems kind of lame, but I email rejected a guy after going out on one date with him. It took away the anxiety and it wasn't as if we had anything serious going on. I say two dates is acceptable for an email rejection.Jesshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03384270738210385286noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-231669418519694533.post-69794647523201607772008-12-03T15:00:00.000-05:002008-12-03T15:00:00.000-05:00It seems like that 6 degrees of separation happens...It seems like that 6 degrees of separation happens to you alot. I'd play it safe and just tell him straight out, that you have no interest in seeing him - in a nice way, of course. This way, down the road, if you meet someone who is friends with him, is related to him, or works with him there will be no bad blood. As anxiety inducing as it is, its the right thing to do.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-231669418519694533.post-4887226449258949632008-12-03T14:15:00.000-05:002008-12-03T14:15:00.000-05:00You've only been out twice - you can for sure just...You've only been out twice - you can for sure just let it go away on it's own...no need to have that conversation in my mind.Ashleyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11742409270749541624noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-231669418519694533.post-24084062067078752622008-12-03T14:06:00.000-05:002008-12-03T14:06:00.000-05:00this is a tough one because you'd think he would e...this is a tough one because you'd think he would eventually get the hint. Though it would probably be nice of you to send him a note or call him saying you aren't interested. Saves you from worrying/dealing with another communication and at the same time lets him know where he is at.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com